Originally posted by: priya185
Ram came infront of Pam but he didn’t charge and was not aggressive. Pam overreacted. In bigg boss and alliance contestants have done worse.
Tbh I feel like nobody (other contestants, hosts, audience) should decide what makes a person feel uncomfortable or unsafe.It holds true for both male and female...Ram did get up in her face and invaded her personal space and she felt attacked and unsafe and rightfully so. Maybe that is something triggering for her. If that makes sense.If it was a task then I can absolutely understand..but it was not ...
I also had a certain experience in my life when I was 15-16...that has made me very sensitive about personal space... People might find it overreaction but I know my reason and my boundary.So every person can have different boundary...
I do appreciate that Ram took accountability and apologised though... That's how it should be..It doesn't matter if it was his intention or not, Pam felt that and that should be enough...
And no, this isn't about playing the "woman card." The same principle applies to everyone. Basic decency means respecting another person's space, controlling your emotions, and arguing without physically intimidating someone. You can disagree, raise your voice, or defend your point without making the other person feel threatened specially in case of power imbalance when you are a giant man like Ram Kapoor who can make any woman feel scared...
I dislike pam but this time I can understand her. She felt uncomfortable with the way he charged. I don't know why is chamola making it look like she is trying to tarnish his reputation?? I hate to say it but I liked how shreya replied her back
. When I find shreya under flip and guttermouth. But kabhi kabhi sahi kaam kar dete hai
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Originally posted by: RockingSunny
I dislike pam but this time I can understand her. She felt uncomfortable with the way he charged. I don't know why is chamola making it look like she is trying to tarnish his reputation?? I hate to say it but I liked how shreya replied her back
Honestly the biggest weakness of Shreya is she is loud motor mouth or as you said gutter mouth....muhfat hai...and sometimes tries to instigate or rattle with words, she is hypocrite as well,too game focused and company of Shilpa Shinde didn't help either who can make anybody look bad just by her presence around that person..🤣...
But when it comes to taking stand in the house, when it comes to tasks, smartness ,game awareness or strategy making,then she has been bang on...She knows how to argue and keep her point across when she wants to without going below the belt (which is rare)lol,she was good in that monologue as well when she was banished from Shivangi's team...She is a confident woman like that..
Honestly for me the biggest moment of empowerment is that weightlifting task when Shreya was carrying maximum weight..and towards the end when Dheeraj went super overconfident and started showing off before winning bcz his competitor was a woman...and Shreya ne ekdam jhanda gadd diya and showed everyone out there what a woman with years of resilience, intense physical hardwork and dedication is capable of.....That was a pure moment of cinema for me...
Honestly this season of lock up is a total thanda season,bland , boring and practically unwatchable sometimes... competition is between bad and worse..and nobody is a proper pure "winner" material...and I don't really care who wins...
but I would forever remember this season by that one moment....
. Most fake and useless contestant
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