Now another headache for Anjali if Vidhan breaks the engagement. Jagat will put all the blame on Anjali as the reason for breaking the engagement. He will tell just because Anjali wanted go for this adventure she lose out on such a good guy.
I would really love to see the take of AG on this issue. Because this is something many girls face when they want to follow their dreams. If she studies this or that who will marry her. Even I had faced it when I wanted to do B-Tech 15 years back. Kaun Shaadi Karega. Reason those days in my community the only option girls took was teaching, bank or doctor. Guys were mostly in business and most of them wont be even graduates.
It was like my ambition has to be curtailed based on what the guys in my community did. Expectation was set. if you study B-Tech don't expect an engineer, you might have to settle for graduate in business blah blah...
I had given a hoot to those things, went ahead completed by B-Tech landed in IT industry and in arranged marriage itself got a Qualified Chartered Accountant for husband and keeps on boldly telling girls whomever I meet. Don't stop yourself from pursuing what you want. The person made for you will come to you irrespective of what you study and don't study.
Since I am a living example of dreams followed well I got some people to follow me and change their lives for better than comprising their dreams for the good guy in waiting. The so called Acha Rishtha.
But let me tell you this is a real problem in our country and one that needs to be addressed. It is very difficult to challenge it and it is emotionally draining as it takes all the strength to face it without having any strong emotional support. You are alone out there. Even your parents will be like " I guess this is your fate, what to do" etc and they feel tensed when the pressure of society build on them. And seeing them tensed it is very difficult to assuage your guilty conscious also. So it is a very deep hurtful emotional fight with just faith that God wont let you down as your companion.