I think its easier said than done. Deep down all of us crave for acceptance, especially from our own family. When we go through even a slight disagreement with our family, it hurts & upsets us. We want them to understand us. Imagine the plight of Anjali who hasn't even got the opportunity to have a proper conversation with her father all these years. So it is normal for her to want her father to understand her & give that basic love. Its easy for us to say that we will never forgive our father or family, but there's a thin line between love & hate. Many of us, or at least I do, feel both extremes of emotions towards my father. Regardless of whether I am loving him or hating him at that moment, I can't leave him because he is my father.