I think some actors shouldn't be doing reality shows to maintain their goodwill. This is true or not but these two made everything about them look weird. Friendship in reality shows aren't unheard of, same as good friends falling in love. Planned or not. But Harshad has been so over the top that people can't help but point out & it's not in a nice way. He is overwhelming in a bad way, to the point looks like he's acting in a show. It's understandable if his exes thought the same about him, if this is how he is. On the other hand, SJ saying they are friends then crying like a foolish in that one epi.. God! It's basically cringe.
Now, if this news is true, then what can I say. They might be good friends off screen but they shouldn't be together. They already feel toxic.
Originally posted by: piya2025
I think some actors shouldn't be doing reality shows to maintain their goodwill. This is true or not but these two made everything about them look weird. Friendship in reality shows aren't unheard of, same as good friends falling in love. Planned or not. But Harshad has been so over the top that people can't help but point out & it's not in a nice way. He is overwhelming in a bad way, to the point looks like he's acting in a show. Its understandable if his exes thought the same about him, of this is how he is. On the other hand, SJ saying they are friends then crying like a foolish in that one epi.. God! It's basically cringe.
Now, if this news is true, then what can I say. They might be good friends off screen but they shouldn't be together. They already feels toxic.
Wahi na....Honestly, he's not a toddler...he's a 43-year-old grown man. At some point, emotional regulation becomes your own responsibility.
If someone has unresolved trauma, they deserve empathy and support. But their trauma is still their responsibility to address. The world isn't obliged to tolerate your strange behaviour simply because someone is hurting. That's why therapy and professional help exist to help people heal instead of passing that pain on to others.
If the way he's interacting with Shivangi on the show is an accurate reflection of how he handles close relationships, I can understand why some people find it overwhelming. Of course, none of us know what he's like in his private life, so I wouldn't jump to conclusions. But based on what we've seen on the show, there are moments where he comes across as emotionally intense and struggles with boundaries.
If he genuinely wants a healthy long-term relationship and a family, learning emotional regulation, respecting boundaries, and working through unresolved issues can only help.Otherwise he is only going to push mature women away...
And I am saying this with a lot of empathy and compassion for Harshad.... Hope he gets the happiness that he wants after going through this much...and for that he needs to be healed
reality shows contestants does it all the time. jump into others fight. fight. shout on top of lungs. sid shukla was infamous for this. he was also physically aggressive and way too abusive and coddled by makers.Originally posted by: asmitamohanty
Wahi na....Honestly, he's not a toddler...he's a 43-year-old grown man. At some point, emotional regulation becomes your own responsibility.
If someone has unresolved trauma, they deserve empathy and support. But their trauma is still their responsibility to address. The world isn't obliged to tolerate your strange behaviour simply because someone is hurting. That's why therapy and professional help exist to help people heal instead of passing that pain on to others.
If the way he's interacting with Shivangi on the show is an accurate reflection of how he handles close relationships, I can understand why some people find it overwhelming. Of course, none of us know what he's like in his private life, so I wouldn't jump to conclusions. But based on what we've seen on the show, there are moments where he comes across as emotionally intense and struggles with boundaries.
If he genuinely wants a healthy long-term relationship and a family, learning emotional regulation, respecting boundaries, and working through unresolved issues can only help.Otherwise he is only going to push mature women away...
And I am saying this with a lot of empathy and compassion for Harshad.... Hope he gets the happiness that he wants after going through this much...and for that he needs to be healed
is it subtle agism that someone is 40+. like whats ram kapoor and dheeraj's contribution? nothing. whats shilpa's contriution? same as whats harshad criticized for, just that shes good at being calm and outburst
the things harshad did is done by mtv kids all the time. they get fans.
not pointing finger at anyone. this is a point i have seen many times . what exactly is expcted from a 40 yr dude? it feels shaming that he isnt married etc. which is nobodys business. ram kapoor is married. is he better? nope
Originally posted by: Phir_Mohabbat
reality shows contestants does it all the time. jump into others fight. fight. shout on top of lungs. sid shukla was infamous for this. he was also physically aggressive and way too abusive and coddled by makers.
is it subtle agism that someone is 40+. like whats ram kapoor and dheeraj's contribution? nothing. whats shilpa's contriution? same as whats harshad criticized for, just that shes good at being calm and outburst
the things harshad did is done by mtv kids all the time. they get fans.
not pointing finger at anyone. this is a point i have seen many times . what exactly is expcted from a 40 yr dude? it feels shaming that he isnt married etc. which is nobodys business. ram kapoor is married. is he better? nope
I think people expected a certain level of civilised behaviour from harshad which he didn't live up to. Forget about civilised he was straight up cringe fighting for his equally cringe nibbi.
Unlike him and anna-belle , Shreya does know how to argue or reply without shouting.
Shivangi and harshad seem to think that they appear cute or iconic doing third class behaviour, conveniently forgetting that it's a reality show not yrrkh. Them being 30 plus doesn't help it either.
Originally posted by: Phir_Mohabbat
reality shows contestants does it all the time. jump into others fight. fight. shout on top of lungs. sid shukla was infamous for this. he was also physically aggressive and way too abusive and coddled by makers.
is it subtle agism that someone is 40+. like whats ram kapoor and dheeraj's contribution? nothing. whats shilpa's contriution? same as whats harshad criticized for, just that shes good at being calm and outburst
the things harshad did is done by mtv kids all the time. they get fans.
not pointing finger at anyone. this is a point i have seen many times . what exactly is expcted from a 40 yr dude? it feels shaming that he isnt married etc. which is nobodys business. ram kapoor is married. is he better? nope
Now you are totally taking it to some other direction
Yaar kya ageism baba....abb 43 yr old man ko 43 yr old bolenge nahin kya....My intention was not agesim...
I expected Harshad to be much more intelligent,sharp and emotionally regulated than he appeared in the show to me....
Abb Ram Kapoor se Harshad ko compare kar rahe ho?....Harshad is better than Ram Kapoor..But is Ram Kapoor some gold standard?
You are again and again bringing MTV guys ...Abb Harshad will be compared to MTV guys?....After more than two decades of successful glorious hardworking career now will i expect Harshad to behave like MTV guys whose claim to fame is MTV reality shows...? If we hold both of them to same standard then what is the point of the two decades of hardwork Harshad put in to built his image and status?
Koi usse shame nahin kar raha that he is not married...but the point is he himself wants it ..and I want good for him only...
You are probably thinking that I am Harshad hater...No...I have loved Harshad in Tere liye, Saubhagyavati Bhava, and Bepannah...
But mujhe iss show me woh samajh nahi aaya...when I was really excited to see him and HIS GAME in the show....jo ki mujhe nahin mila...
And I am allowed to feel disappointed i believe.. without being made to feel guilty for my emotions..
Shivangi Joshi is safe and goes to the finale week
I don't have X but the kinda posts made there (saw screenshots) damn 
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