Originally posted by: Mandodari
I left India a long time ago. Is this true of youngsters in India or is this an exaggeration? Just curious. I posted this as it relates to Ramayan. Here is the link to the article. I was feeling sad a little bit after I read this article.
https://www.hindu.com/op/2008/03/02/stories/2008030252821500.htm
It is true to a great extent, Mandodari ji. In this busy life, everyone just wants to rush with stuff. We don't even get time to relax or even think. Kids these days are handled with cartoons, toys and computer games. The little time they get will be spent in nicking that time too to play some game in the streets or in parents pushing their kids to tuition.
First of all, in those days, grandparents, parents and relatives use to tell so many stories from the epics and other moral stories. The elders of the neighbourhood use to adress a gathering of little children and tell them such captivating tales (again from our epics and other literatures). The kids of today do not get a chance to experience all these. The kids themselves are busy or prefer to spend time in the computer.
All the festivals celebrated has a special significance. In those days, everyone used to know why and how it is celebrated and all the relatives used to get together and prepare for it all. Nowadays, we don't even have time to celebrate the festivals. Then where do we get the chance to know about the festival and learn the legends behind it?
There are many books available from which the children can read the stories themselves. But how many kids prefer reading books? And how many kids turned away from it after reading a badly written book or a book that gives false information? How many children prefer reading the original classic versions? If they think it is too high or it will be too boring - will the parents have time to sit down and read a bit of it to them? If this happens, the kid will pick up the book by him/herself. Many do not realise that reading the original verison will be so interesting that they won't be able to put the book down.
And most importantly, even if the kids themselves are interested and want to know more, they do not find proper guidance. Most of the times a child who is inquisitive of all the customs is told off. "You just do what you are told. Don't ask questions." - this is the common reply. If the children ask why a particular person did that - for example the incident of Lord Ram killing Vaali - he/she is told off and advised to just listen to and not ask quesitons. The reason may be that many do not know it themselves or that they might think that the kid wont understand - Primarily it is the case of not being confident enough to explain it to the child. Will the child still continue to show interest in this field? How many children will still be interested to search for answers, ask others till they find the answer and read more to find out?
By saying all these, I do not mean to criticize the way kids are brought up today. I am merely stating the situation. No offence meant at all.
Few years ago, it was much worse, but now its slightly better. Many movies, animations, serials, etc. Many people take lots of pains to bring the attention of the youth back to our culture - so that they know atleast the basics of our literature. I appreciate the efforts taken - in my childhood days, there wasn't much (or perhaps I didn't have access to much). It used to be a rare treat and delight to see a series or movie made based on our mythology. Nowadays, one can always find somehthing or the other based on our mythology now. Whether this situation will get better or worse is in the hands of the youth of today.
That is one of the main reasons I was so glad to find this forum and Ramayan discussions here. The only time I got to talk about our mythology and no one ran away was with some of my colleagues who shared my love for the epics. Now I am glad to know so many are interested and gladly help others with the knowledge they have. Hats off to all of you, my friends!!! πππ