Kalyanam Updates Mar 23-27 discussions - Page 5

thanks nets!
im glad ananthi knows now...she seems like a brave girl, but it seems like elango will go to any lengths to get her.

Eljay, men like your friend's BIL are disgusting -- not just because they lust after their wives' sisters but also because they have the gall to externalise their thoughts as if it were the most natural thing to say. What did your friend's BiL think she was? Disgusting!

Thanks for the update Netra ka Oh man, thas sooo scary Eljay ma... In Aanadhi's case, thank god her brothers as well as Anandhi herself know about Elango!

The sad thing about lecherous guys like this Elango is that they get away with it because we don't come out openly in our culture and accuse the men of doing it. At least, here in the US, people are a little more open about accusing men of such things, in India, I doubt if women would ever open up and talk about it. When I was in college, we certainly wouldn't have talked about it to our parents, which is why my friend used to spend the weekends in the hostel rather than go home whenever her sister and BIl were visiting. I didn't realize it at the time, but it is so scary when you think of it now, and I do hope more women are aware of the need to speak up.

I guess women wouldn't hesitate to speak up when some stranger hits on them. But if it is your own sister's husband who's hitting on you, one would tend to get into a state of denial and hope it was all in one's imagination. It's hard to believe your sister's husband is making advances towards you. You want to respect him; you don't want to spoil your sister's life. I guess that's the main reason why women these days still hesitate to bring up such lecherous cases to light.

Originally posted by: eljay

The sad thing about lecherous guys like this Elango is that they get away with it because we don't come out openly in our culture and accuse the men of doing it. At least, here in the US, people are a little more open about accusing men of such things, in India, I doubt if women would ever open up and talk about it. When I was in college, we certainly wouldn't have talked about it to our parents, which is why my friend used to spend the weekends in the hostel rather than go home whenever her sister and BIl were visiting. I didn't realize it at the time, but it is so scary when you think of it now, and I do hope more women are aware of the need to speak up.

omg! Meena's character is a terrorist in this. and she is lying to arthi that she is a cbi officer. that is sooo sad. poor arthi, at the end she is going to be caught in this mess.