I'n not quite sure. she respects him a whole lot and that is definately evident. but I think she still has feelings for neel. after all, pehla pyar, aur woh bhi itna purana aur gehra, itni jaldi nahin bhoolta. or so they say. but I think after all nahar is doing, she is perhaps like u guys predict slowly falling for him. its her loss either way. if she chooses nahar, she loses neel and if she chose neel she loses her family. par abhi to ye lagta hai ke woh nahar ki honay wali hai.
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