When my parents got married my dad ate meat and my mum was a strict veggie and refused to touch meat, so my mum used to make the turkha and dad did the rest, we never had a problem.
i ate meat until i was 12 when i decided out of my own free will that i wanted to become a vegetairian.
I think compramise and understanding is a big thing in a relationship, if i personally ate meat and my husband didn't i would not eat meat in the home but would eat it outside out of respect.
i find it very annoying when nobody questions men who eat meat at home when their wives are vegetarian yet they think its the biggest thing in the world when its the other way around.
i don't blame the mums for kicking off about eating meat in the house, the smell urgh 🤢