Lonely in Gym?

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hydrogurl001

@hydrogurl001

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Posted: 16 years ago

hey guys, in gym class i have nobody to really talk to. I dont know anyone in my gym class, and there really isn't anyone who I could talk to. There's barely any other girls in the class, and the ones there are already are friends with one another and talk to each other in their own groups..there's like 4 other girls..and the other guys in class, i can't really talk to much because all they're into is obviously playing sports..and it'd be weird if I go join in on their real game when they play..so i feel really left out and i dont really know what to do about it, i hate feeling lonely in class and ive tried ignoring it, but it gets really hard sometimes, when im just shooting hoops by myself or something...and im scared to when it comes to partner time for some sports because i dont have anyone to partner up with..this is the first time i'm really dealing w/ this in gym...and i hate it because this class is pretty much the class everyone just talks to their friends with..and i dont know anyone in my class so i just sit there..what should i do?
please help 😕

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@beautifuldreams

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Posted: 16 years ago

Well go to the girls tell them about yewh i dont think they will mind will they if they doo then....

but go to them and tell them can i join yewh girls couse i am on my own if not that take yewhr school mate with yewh or yewh close friend and then syat with her

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Amira

@MegaAngelzs

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Posted: 16 years ago

If u want 2 make frends in gym class...

you first need to put yourself out there somehow.

Friends don't just come knocking on your door... while you sit at home playing computer games!!

Be ur self... If ur funny... den crack jokes in class, thats the most easiest way that u can make people notice u!! 😃

By wat u sed... It seems dat u don't exactly strike up a conversation with the girls in ur class.. Instead u sit dere like a lonewolf!! 😕

Giirrll... U HAVE 2 SMILE!! 😊

Ur smile is ur best weapon!!

Use it, make eye contact with the girls nd smile!!

They'll instantly knw dat ur very friendly and start talking 2 u!! 😆

If ur still having problems becoz ur shy or something...!!

Don't worry hun.. U just get ur confident... walk over there... and start a conversation.

U cud comment bwt the enviroment (the weather is a classic: "At least it's not raining like last week!")

A request for help ("Can you help me carry a few boxes, if you have a minute?"

Or a compliment ("I love your shoes.") Follow up immediately with a related question: Do you like this warm weather? Where did you get shoes like that?

U can also make small talk. Keep the conversation light and cheery!!

This allways works 4 me!! hehe 😛

Hope this helps. 😉

Gud luck!!

-Amira-

-The Love Guru-

-And many other things!!-

😆😆😆

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Amira

@MegaAngelzs

Voyager

Posted: 16 years ago

Okkiii... i fink dis topic shud be clossed nww..

No one's doin anything!!!

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179123

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Posted: 16 years ago

Hi,

Am sure you would not want to join that boys group so that left you with those 4 girls and since they were already there, you are the one that has to go and mingle with them because they will not come to you. Here is what i think is the best way to talk to them, just go and tell them 'Hi, can i join ur group, i am kind by myself' and see what they say, and then give it some time, takes time to be friend, regarding partners i dont think you have to worry much about it because am sure you have a teacher that will allocate you with someone if you alone...

Hope this Helps,
Good Luck :)

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hydrogurl001

@hydrogurl001

Rocker

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Posted: 16 years ago

thanks for the help everyone =)

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