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Under what conditions should Jyoti marry Kabir?

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kasturi

@ojii

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Posted: 16 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: Vrisha
^^^^ You mean that if your baby is stolen from you, but you are told it's dead, and you get to accidentally hug it, you won't all of a sudden forget all your sorrows & be ready to move on? 😈

she did not think that why pankaj has become so quiet now and the doctors didn't even handover ed the body of the child and that time kabir said that jyoti is not in the mentality to say about what happened during that day........ but now she is in the mentality to say something and also she is all right to take action against pankaj at least she can find out exactly what happened that day and catch pankaj's collar going in to his house, marriage can take place later also.
Secondly hugging a child and forgetting sorrows is a different part. She might have hugged sushmas child also then that time she remembered her child and when accidently she hugged her child.... she forgot her sorrows what stupidity has been shown ....... Utterly rubbish.😡

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seemadaundkar

@seemadaundkar

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Posted: 16 years ago

#12

Oh..............iM SIMPLY in love with Kabir....he is wonderful. 😊

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Vrish

@Vr15h

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+ 6

Posted: 16 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: deejagi

Sorry Anu (I hope I can call you by name), I don't agree w/ you here.

If Kabir would have said this in the beginning when KK asked him about whether he had informed his parents on this, nobody would have bothered. But he kept them in dark by saying he was waiting Jyothi's consent an dlater said let Jyothi get well etc. Had he said that he is rebellion and he doesn't want to have any relationship with his family in future, they would not have bothered to talk about that over and again. Even Jyothi would have agreed to marry him without any doubt. But he is still inclined to his family (the way he is leading the lavish life, I think still he is depending on his family's fortune. MOre over even now, he didn't say, he will not associate with his family, rather he said they will marry like cowards and then go, announce their marriage to his family. What might happen if they announce it after wedding, god only knows, they either shove them out or they might accept them in the khandan on many conditions, which is not worth risking. Jyothi has already tasted the bitterness of a family who didn't approved her wedding to Pankaj (just on elady was sufficient to show the hell to Jyothi) now if the entire family is against her means, lost the battle. So only Jyothi is insisting on family permission before hand.

If I may, I agree more w/ Anu here

First things first - Kabir runs his own media relations company, and his brothers have their own businesses, by the look of it and his dad is the mayor of Jodhpur (as came out in the TellyBuzz article) As such, he owes them nothing!!! And even if he was dependent on them, the idea that he's therefore a bonded slave who has to marry whoever they ask him to is assinine. CM tried that w/ Uday, and almost lost him for good, had it not been for the hated and stupid Jyoti.

The other thing - Kabir had been open to Jyoti that he didn't have good relations w/ his family - the only 3 people w/ whom he did, his mom & nani are dead, while his badi bhabi is alive but powerless. I agree that he should have been more forthcoming to the Sharmas that he's not on good terms w/ his family and that they wouldn't approve of this, but that notwithstanding, they won't be in a position to make Jyoti's life miserable. I do agree w/ you that he should have told them that.

Like Anu pointed out, Jyoti did w/ Pankaj exactly what she now wants to avoid w/ Kabir. You are right that it's a once bitten, twice shy situation, but she needs to analyze things more, instead of always having only one thing go on in her pretty head - rishtas!!! As for Sudha, Uday knew what he was doing and was prepared to walk out of the family when CM insulted Sudha: it was Jyoti who dragged him back. Now, thankfully, they are gone, and if and when they do come back, I'd like to see them tell CM that either she leaves, or they leave. Throw Jyoti's stupid rishta engineering back in her face!!!

I also don't think that knowing what we do about Jyoti's character, had Kabir said that he had no relationship w/ his family, so to forget it, Jyoti would have just let it go. Instead, she'd have gone through this masochistic exercise of making him rebuild the entire rishta from scratch to make it resemble the Jantar Mantar, and then have him make them accept her, and then marry. And since KK never believed in disagreeing w/ Jyoti, he'd have just gone w/ this masochistic move of hers, just like he persuaded Uday to take Sudha and go back to CM.

I think the question Jyoti needs to be asked - irrespective of her, does Kabir have a right to marry if he doesn't have a relationship w/ his family. Simple yes or no answer required - nothing more, nothing less.

ojii

I was being facetious, but somehow, I think you missed it 😆

Edited by Vrisha - 16 years ago

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khanJamila

@khanJamila

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Posted: 16 years ago

#14

OMG now Jyoti will be dealing with more powerful family then Vashisth. I remember Kabir screaming at Police station to Cop that you cannot imagine about my power 😲 when Deepu and him were searching for Jyoti.

I really want Kabir and Jyoti getting married😃

Jyoti's character want leave good image if she is not able to get Kabir.

( I mean from Brij to Pankaj and Kabir and then some one else 🤢.)

Can't wait to see more painfull part of Kabir & Jyoti's Gap

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Kruthika

@CarulinaTina

Stunner

+ 6

Posted: 16 years ago

#15

Actually, Jyoti's condition has changed - she no longer wants him to convince his family and not come back if he can't. She's agreed to still marry him if he's unsuccessful, she just wants him to try.

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