I agree with you ... Adi tends to be idealistic and completely unaware of his surroundings. He won't bother trying to find out what's going on. And like you said, since he's already blaming his mother for something, w/o trying to understand what, why, when it happened, he'll pile this one on it too ..
This is a very very very delicate time for Devyani ... I feel one wrong move on her part, and it can all fall apart. She'll lose, sons, daughters-in-law, and her husband. The only person standing with her will be bauji.
Conversely though, she's tolerated long enough. It's not fair that she tolerate anymore ..
Lets see ...