[Quote=daksshajitsingh]According to me 2nd option is the only survival for everyone... Coz he is a person of soul... If VIDYA is not happy with someone else, than Gaurav wl never make a relationship with anyone, he loves Karan, But if something greater than ljust physical intimacy in a relationship, than Gaurav can't live without VIDYA... He deserves to b ALONE, till the time VIDYA's decides to go further and find someone else as his husband or partner willingly...
Kuch ghaltiyan ki muaafi nahin hoti, Gaurav did the same mistake by marrying VIDYA...
(Purely my own point of view as Dakssh)
Hello,
As you are asking the question, i m taking the opportunity to tell you what i think about it.
I don't agree with you on this subject :
Gaurav did a mistake by marrying Vidya but who wouldn't have, i think when you think you are a shame for your family, that you are a disappointement since "childhood", that your own father would kill you rather than having you as a son. I think in a case like this you do what you think will please your family... And people judging should try to walk a mile in his shoes...
Dispite of all this, this is not Vidya's fault, but what is done is done, it's useless to look for a culprit.
I think Gaurav should leave Vidya, because i really agree on chinu's and aditya's opinion in the show.
As long as he will stay with her, she will force herself to love him, and hope for a better futur as his wife. As divorcing is so shamefull and painfull in India, she will always be scared for herself and her family to do so. It would a huge pain to overcome.
If she stays with Gaurav, she will suffer a little bit everyday, but this kind of suffering, most of people can get used to it and live with it. She would be broken to not have kids and having people asking her why, but she would survive by keeping the hope that maybe one day...
I don't think she would be willing to leave one day, as everybody is so nice to her. Or maybe she would, around 45 years old, when she will be full of bitterness...
(as she never goes out of the house, she won't meet anybody to fall in love with)
As for the consequences for the rest of their family, the parents of Vidya were clear on agreeing to take her back. They see, as everybody else, how sad she truly is...
And for Gaurav's family, he has the support of his mum, and now that Aditya's anger is passing, he will have the support of his brother... I think that should be enough for him, as he was ready and his mother as well to have a divorce some episodes back.
This show really show how lies, even with good intentions, can kill a family. Most of the situations are created by some will to protect, to hide... In the end they should all discuss all the matters together, sure they would be arguments, but atfer some times reconciliations as well whereas keeping all this matter hidden make only the situations to worsen...
Anyway just as you said, it's just my humble opinion of european girl, very far from India... I can be wrong
Anyway thanks for this very good show and for the open-mind it's showing
Thank you for your courage to take up this role and doing your best with it
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