@Misti: This is a bit late response. I have same feelings about the episode. Raavan is too boring and he is getting too much screen space. I would have preferred to see more of Sita, Ram, Lakshman and Urmila scenes. Instead there was not much focus on their interaction. Raavan was only tolerable when he was silenced by Ram breaking the dhanush or when Naarad was winding him up. In all other scenes, he bores me so much that I barely skim them.
I would have liked to see Urmila's reaction to the proposal and a scene between her and Sita. Lakshman definitely was flirting with Urmila the way he was reacting to her barbs and paying her back in the same coin. So liked his reaction and Ram's amusement.
I too was wondering about Ram's getup. Thankfully I am not the only one who found something strange about him in this wedding. Lakshman looked great and Sita looked very beautiful.