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@ROBlicious.

Sparkler

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Posted: 16 years ago

Okay i really need some adivce. Well its actually for a friend so i wana help her, so please give me some advice.

She has a bestfriend who she loves more then anything in the world. They have been friends forever, now all of a sudden he told her he has some feelings for her , like more then a friend. She never looked at him that way. Now she is confused because she doesnt wana accept him as a boyfriend and lie about liking him the same way and she doesnt wana hurt him either with saying no. So come on please Help out.

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@beautifuldreams

Voyager

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Posted: 16 years ago

Just Tell Yewhr Friend To Tell She Dont Like Him Cuz if She Lies if he finds out both will get hurt

the guy might find out from someone

soo simple just tell the boy that we can only be friends this cant happen soweee

Hope IT HELPS😃😃

Good Luck FOr Yewh Friend Ayysha😕

Love Iqra😳

Edited by MissSweetyPie - 16 years ago

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persistence

@persistence

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Posted: 16 years ago

Tell him that she doesn't mean to hurt him; however, she can't offer him the same love - the love he very much deserves from the person who will feel the same for him. He may be heart-broken for a while, but will eventually move on. THe girl shouldn't make herself unhappy for her friend. Otherwise, she will start to resent the guy for her unhappiness and eventually make the guy unhappy. She will be at where they started -- the guy with broken heart. Friendship, perhaps ruined as well, if it is strong enough to survives the original/honesty blow.

Hope it helps.

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@MegaAngelzs

Voyager

Posted: 16 years ago

The girl shudn't like the guy juz becoz he likes her!! Becoz the thing is... If she does this nd she doesn't like him in the same way the guy likes her... It's gonna create problems!! I mean eventually the girls gonna like anova guy!! 😕😕

Not even their friendship will last!! 😭

If the Girl truly doesn't want the guy to get hurt... she shud just be straight forward wiv the guy... Becoz in the end he's gonna find out anyway!! And if he finds out from SOMEONE ELSE... There's nothing worse than being told the hard bitter truth from a stranger than the girl herself!! 🤢

I knw how the girl must feel!

She doesns't want her friend to get hurt!! But liking someone just becoz they like them.. keeping THAT a secret... and then lying bwt it... It's not right!!

It's better if the girl tells the guy soon!! It will ease his pain a little!!

There will always be girls out there that will like him 4 hu he is nd hu he will start to like... and someday he will find the right one... It's juz not the girl!!

Tell him that!!

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Posted: 16 years ago

That is one of the worst situation that might happen between friendship, when one of them fall for each other, everything changes. Your friend does not like him like he likes her and whatever she does one of them is going to get hurt.

If your friend tell him that she does not like him then its obvious that guy will be hurt. Even if your friend try to reassure him in any other way. And now if your friend does not say anything, that guy will assume that your friend like him which will be awkward for your friend and they both will eventually separate breaking out this friendship and both getting hurt.

The best way to come out with this i think is for your friend to just tell the guys that she likes him just like a friend and nothing more. And that the guy should move on in life but they should still stay best friends as they were before.

And if that guy really care for ur friend he might be hurt but he will not break his friendship or try to create distant. He will try his best to not make thing awkward between them. So, it all depends on ur friend how she will approach this to him by trusting his friend that nothing will change between them after her refusal.

Hope this help,
Good Luck!